The Woman Who Was Wyrd

‘Women are spinners and weavers; we are the ones who spin the threads and weave them into meaning and pattern. Like silkworms, we create those threads out of our own substance, pulling the strong, fine fibres out of our own hearts and wombs. It’s time to make some new threads; time to strengthen the frayed wild edges of our own being and then weave ourselves back into the fabric of our culture. Once we knew the patterns for weaving the world; we can piece them together again. Women can heal the Wasteland. We can remake the world. This is what women do. This is our work.’
From If Women Rose Rooted, by Sharon Blackie

In Old English, the word ‘wyrd’ is usually used to refer to fate, or destiny; it’s actually a verbal noun formed from the verb weorþan, meaning ‘to come to pass, to become’. But originally, it was the name for a goddess: one who was fate personified. She was the eldest of the Norns, who in Norse and other Germanic mythology were the weavers of destiny. Urðr (the Old Norse equivalent of the Old English ‘Wyrd’) and her sisters Verðandi and Skuld are said to live in a hall at the Well of Urðr which lies beneath the world tree, Yggdrasil. The Norns design the destinies of all of those who live in the Nine Worlds of Yggdrasil, from humans to animals to giants and gods – but in contrast to the more deterministic Greek concept of fate, those beings still have some degree of agency in shaping their own destiny and the destinies of others. But the power of the Norns is great: no person, it is said – and not even a god – can overturn their judgement.

Wyrd/ Urðr and the other Norns are just one example of the Three Maidens – spinning and weaving women throughout European mythology – who were said to hold the fate of all the beings of the world(s) in their hands. In ancient Greece, they were called the Moirae; in Rome, the Parcae. In Germania, Eastern Gaul, and Northern Italy they were called the Matres, or the Matronae. There are many stories about them in Slavic mythology, where their various names are Sudičky, Sudice, Suđaje, Rodzanice, Narecznice, Sudiczki, Sojenice or Rojenice. In contrast to Greek and Norse mythology, they are young, beautiful, and usually dressed in white.

The importance of the spinning and weaving motifs can be seen passed down through European fairy tales: take the Sleeping Beauty, who pricks her finger on a spindle and falls asleep for a hundred years. Think of the princess in ‘Rumpelstiltskin’, who is required to spin straw into gold. Or Habetrot, a character from British folklore who was a spinner, a weaver, and also a healer: if you could persuade her to weave you a garment, you’d never again suffer from illness.

The Wise Women of Europe, spinning and weaving the world into being. In the old stories, it is women who make the world; why then shouldn’t we remake it? It’s time now, more than ever, to remember those old stories. Time to reclaim the Wise Woman. Time to walk the old path – the path through the hedge.


from Creation of the Himalayas

after the painting ‘Embroidering Earth’s Mantle’ by Remedios Varo

They say we are just embroiderers
but when we are working well, our tower turns
into burnished fire and the mantle flows
from our fingers, tumbling through the air
in loops of delight. There are always men
trapped in our weave. The sky calls their names
and they climb, trying to reach back
through the clouds to our blue fingers.
They glimpse us over the Tibetan Plateau,
our needles flashing like nimbus.
Each dancing thread and singing stitch
must be precisely placed in its matrix.

Pascale Petit


4 Comments on “The Woman Who Was Wyrd

  1. Reblogged this on *Ancient Awareness* and commented:
    As a seer (volva) who uses the Runes as my preferred method of divination, I’m very familiar with the Norns (Northern Goddesses of Destiny).
    I’ve met them, I’ve talked to them and they taught me a little secret: each of them holds & weave a thread into a tapestry of every living soul’s life and destiny. But the pattern is not set in stone, it can evolve into something else. Those who take matters into their hands, those who take charge of their life hold a 4th thread in their hands: the thread of their own awareness, the thread of their own destiny. This is the thread that can consciously change the pattern & the weaving of the entire tapestry.
    As a seer, I know and I tell people that divination is a tool. The future is not set in stone. But knowing what lies ahead of the path is a gift and if you don’t like what’s coming your way you can change it…

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  2. Nothing of great import to add to the wonder of the words preceding this excellent meditation, except to add that In “Beowulf” and other sagas and epics from the Northern Realm, women were called “peace-weavers” for all the reasons already articulated.

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  3. I love this Sharon, thank you for posting it. I actually trained as a weaver at college (and worked as a weaver for many years before having children). Now I am a poet and I love to think about the connection between weaving , women, words and creation. Thanks also for posting Pascale’s poem here, which I adore. Its always good to come back to these precious connections! They are so undervalued in this day and age but hopefully with the ‘rise of women’ will now be again going from strength to strength.


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